Scott James Borthwick

1978 - 2009
LocationLivingston
Age30 years
Cause of DeathDiabetes
Date of Birth13/12/1978
Date of Death08/07/2009
Visitors1,224 since 09/07/2009
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OUR OLDEST AND ONLY SON HAS DONE A LOT OF STUPID THINGS IN HIS 30YRS BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY HE
WAS OUR ONLY SON OUR FIRST BORN THE APPLE OF OUR EYES TILL HE GOT IN WITH ALL THE WRONG SORTS OF
PEOPLE I HAVE SAID ON LOTS OF OCCASIONS THAT I LOVED SCOTT WITH ALL MY HEART BUT I JUST DIDN'T LIKE
HIM VERY MUCH.

NOW WE WISH WITH ALL OUR HEARTS AND SOUL THAT WE HAD SPOKEN TO HIM BUT NOW WITH A KNOCK AT THE DOOR
ON THE 8TH JULY 2009 WE WHERE TOLD THAT HE WAS DEAD AND WOULD NEVER AGAIN SEE HIS CHEEKY FACE SAYING
AWWW I'M SORRY MUM
WELL HE HAS PAID THE ULTIMATE PRICE OF DEATH AND ALL HE EVER DONE TO HURT US IS NOW FORGIVEN AND
FORGOTTEN !!

I WOULDN'T WISH THIS ON ANYBODY TO LOSE ONE CHILD BUT NOW TWO I DON'T KNOW HOW I WILL BE ABLE TO
CARRY ON
I FEEL AS IF MY HEART HAS BEEN BROKEN ALL OVER AGAIN WHEN IS ENOUGH ???



SCOTT JAMES BORTHWICK LEAVES BEHIND HIS DAD DODE, MUM LAURA, YOUNGER SISTER'S LOUISE & PAULINE &
ONE SON OF WHO WE ARE BRINGING UP MARK AGED 12YRS

SCOTT ALSO LEAVES BEHIND MARK'S SIBLINGS;
RACHEL 11YRS, DEAN 10YRS, REBECCA 9YRS, JASON 7YRS, KYLE 5YRS ALSO ANOTHER TWO WHO WE NEVER KNEW
ABOUT DEMI 4YRS & FINALLY DELTA 10MTHS

ITS SEEMS THAT SCOTT WAS CHANGING FOR THE BETTER AS HE HAS BROUGHT DEMI UP FOR THE LAST 4YRS EVEN
THOUGH SHE WAS NOT HIS BIOLOGICAL CHILD.

I'M NOW HOPING THAT SCOTT IS NOW WITH HIS YOUNGER SISTER CAROLINE ROSE BORTHWICK WHO IS ALSO ON THIS
COMFORTING SITE WHICH HAS BEEN MY SAVING GRACE FOR A LONG TIME X

SCOTT,
I WROTE THIS FOR YOU & IT WAS READ OUT AT YOU FUNERAL
Scott,
We live on earth for a lifetime,
And for some including you it's
Not long enough. So please don't
Leave with guilt it was just your
Time to go. You were loved more
Than you will ever have known. We
have cried to many nights without
you.

But you haven't really left us as
we still have Mark to grow and love.

We will always be close just so you
Know. We believe that when we call
Your name you will always know. So
Stay close and watch over us your
Loving family. So we are sending you
with all our love and the hope that
One day when it's our time we will
be together again.

I LOVE YOU MUM XX

P.s Mark says for you not to cheeky to Grandad

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Waiting at the Door

I can’t explain so deep inside
The very fabric of my soul
Only a heart that grieves such loss
Can ever truly understand

It’s like you’re waiting at the door
Until a loved one comes back home
You feel a longing in your heart
When they appear the longing stops

But in a loss that never ends
You’re always standing at that door
You feel the longing in the breeze
So incomplete and never filled

I cannot find the words to say
Just what it’s like to want forever
Never seeing them again
Just always waiting at the door

Alison Mary Dunn

Phyllis Frazier Harris Yesterday evening

TRIBUTE FOR 19-11-09

♥*•♥ One Gift♥*•♥

One gift, above all others
God gives to us to treasure
One that knows no time, no place
And one gold cannot measure
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The precious, poignant tender gift
Of Memory...that will keep
Of dear ones ever in our hearts
Although God gives them sleep
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It brings back long remembered things
A song, a word, a smile
And the world's a better place
...because
We had them for awhile!

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TRIBUTE FOR 20-11-09
The pain we feel inside today
Is the pain we try to hide,
For no one will ever know
The tears i cry inside.

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It seems like only yesterday
The wound is still so sore.
For every hour of every day
We miss you more and more
For you are someone special
And think the world of you.

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TRIBUTE FOR 21-11-09

Missing You
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I just can't believe it
The sun still sets and rises.
The moon and stars still shine.
The flowers still bloom,
The birds still sing.
I expected a change in everything...
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I just can't believe it.
It still gets dark and light.
The ocean still has waves,
The rain still rains,
The wind still blows.
Is it because they do not know?
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I just can't believe it.
I thought the world would stop,
When in the house I found
An empty chair,
A missing smile.
I thought it would stop
For just a while.
I just can't believe it....
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TRIBUTE FOR 22-11-09

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You gave us love
And lots more,
We have so much
To thank you for,
Silent thoughts,
Memories deep,
Locked in our hearts
For ever to keep.
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I wish you all a very peaceful weekend my friend
With love as always Linda.xxx

Linda Hutt Thursday midday

♥ `*•.� 13th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.�
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...........|.....|..........I wish you all a good weekend,
...........|.....|..........With love as always Linda.xxx
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Linda Hutt 1 week ago

STILL MISSING YOU

They say that there’s a reason.
They say that time will heal.
But neither time nor reason
Will change the way we feel.

For no one knows the heartache
that lies behind our smiles.
No one knows how many times
we have broken down and cried.

We want to tell you something,
so there won't be any doubt.
You're so wonderful to think of
but so hard to be without.

We cannot bring the old days back
when we were all together.
The family chain is broken now
but memories live forever.

GOD BLESS

XXX

Carol Love (GTS Friend) 1 week ago

`*•.� 10th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.�
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Love Shines Through
Like a shadow in the moonlight
Like the whisper of the seas
Like the echoes of a melody
Just beyond our reach
In the shadow of our sorrow
Past the whisper of goodbye
Love shines through eternity
A heartbeat from our eye
By : Catherine Turner

♥ `*•.� 11th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.�
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TIME WILL EASE THE HURT
by Bruce B. Wilmer

The sadness of the present days
Is locked and set in time,
And meaning to the future
Is a slow and painful climb.
But all the feelings that are now
So vivid and so real
Can't hold their fresh intensity
As time begins to heal.
No wound so deep will ever go
Entirely away;
Yet every hurt becomes
A little less from day to day.
Nothing can erase the painful
Imprints on your mind;
But there are softer memories
That time will let you find.
Though your heart won't let the sadness
Simply slide away,
The echoes will diminish
Even though the memories stay.
♥ `*•.� 12th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.�
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Memories ?

Memories fill the empty space
Where you used to lie
Tears flood my eyes
As I see your face
Your smile
I hear your voice
The humour
I smile...
God Bless You Beautiful Angel
With me all the while
My memories
Take me straight to you
Bridge time and space
Uniting us forever
In an unbroken embrace

Have A Lovely Week My Friends.
With Love Always Linda.xxx

Linda Hutt 2 weeks ago




6th November 2009.


♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ Jude is.............
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┊   ┊┊   ┊┊ ★★ ★ Just sending
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┊   ┊┊   ★ Lots of love

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┊ ★ For a special Angel

★ In heaven above.

I've just popped on your memorial..
To send you some love..
For a special Angel..
In heaven above

You are greatly missed..
By your family below
Why God took your hand..
They will never know.

You were loved so much..
And nobody could compare
For you are a their special Angel..
In heaven up there.

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copyright ~ Jackie Thomas 30/07/09.

Jude Swaddle 2 weeks ago

Good morning lovely angel!

You left us beautiful memories,
Your love is still our guide,
And though we cannot see you,
You are always at our side.

♥♥♥♥♥♥

GOD BLESS

♥♥♥♥♥♥

Carol Love (GTS Friend) 3 weeks ago

WRITTEN WITH LOVE

SCOTT & CAROLINE

IF I TOLD YOU I LOVED YOU FOR YOU WHAT WOULD YOU SAY,
HOW WOULD YOU FEEL. IF I TOLD YOU I CAN'T GO ON WITHOUT YOU BOTH I KNOW YOU WILL BE SAYING STAY THERE MUM YOUR NEEDED THERE NOT HERE.

DO YOU REMEMBER THE SAYING WE USED TO SAY WHEN YOU WERE SMALL BEFORE YOU WENT TO BED AT NIGHT HOW MUCH DO YOU LOVE ME FOREVER AND A DAY UP TO THE MOON AND BACK AGAIN.
AS I SIT HERE WANTING, WISHING HOPING THAT THINGS WERE BACK TO THE WAY THEY USED BE.
WITHOUT HEARTACHE AND REGRET. MY LIFE WITHOUT YOU BOTH MEANS NOTHING. HOW I'M I TO GO ON FOREVER AND A DAY I HEAR YOU BOTH SAY WANTING NEEDING TO FEEL YOUR LOVING TOUCH A KISS A WHISPER, IS ALL THAT I WANT EVEN THOUGH I KNOW IN MY HEART YOU CAN'T DOESN'T MEAN I CAN'T WANT IT AND WISH WITH ALL MY HEART YOU ARE BOTH SAYING WE LOVE YOU STILL FOREVER AND A DAY AND TO THE MOON AND BACK.

I WILL NEVER GET OVER THE LOSING OF MY TWO OLDEST CHILDREN YOU WHERE BOTH SO VERY SPEACIAL IN DIFFERENT WAYS I KNOW YOUR SISTER'S DON'T MEAN TO PUSH ME ASIDE BUT IT DOESN'T MEAN IT HURTS ANY LESS SORRY SCOTT AND CAROLINE I FEEL LIKE I LET YOU BOTH DOWN. I JUST WANT TO MAKE YOU PROUD.

ALL MY LOVE FOREVER AND A DAY MUM XOX

Laura Borthwick (Mum) 3 weeks ago

2ND NOVEMBER 2009




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Jude Swaddle 3 weeks ago

I remember everything about you,
your voice, you smile, your touch,
the way you walked, the way you talked,
the way you looked at me, meant so much.

I remember all the words you said to me,
some funny, some kind, some wise,
all of the things you did for me,
I see now with different eyes.

I remember every moment we shared,
seems like only yesterday,
or maybe it was eons ago,
It's really hard to say.

You are gone from me now,
but one they can't take away,
your memory resides inside my heart,
and lights up my darkest days

Laura Borthwick (Mum) 3 weeks ago
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